Isn't it amazing how the simple things in life end up being the most important'' Just think about the things that bring joy and meaning to your life every day. Treasure your simple pleasures. Don't ever become so involved with the big things in life that you miss out on the little incidents and deeds. Fantasize. Fantasizing is not a waste of time. By focusing your fantasies, you can accomplish your goals, restore your energy, and give perspective to your life. Fantasize about the person you would like to become. You are in charge of who you are. Play. Have you forgotten how to pretend? Borrow a child, if you don't have one handy. Lean how to play again. Children can remind you that you don't have to know how to throw a bill to have fun with one, and that taking a bath is for more than just getting clean.

Laugh out loud. One of the greatest pleasures of life is to be able to laugh at yourself. Get in touch with your humor. If you say something dumb, laugh. Smile. A smile is a pleasure you can give away. I love the bumper sticker that says. "If you see someone without a smile, give her/him one of yours".